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The THREE months mark

January 24, 2012

I was never a playgirl to begin with, but i was no saint in this BGR thingy too.

I get into a relationship easily, usually too trusting, but those who know me would know that i take every relationship really seriously… Perhaps a lil too serious for my own good.

And i was battling this lil curse called the ‘three months mark’… No matter how much effort i put into that relationship, i did not get pass 3 months..  as somehow a 3rd person appears, he has commitment issues, i unravelled lies, or there was an unforgetable disappearing act…

… To an extent, i started developing an unexplainable fear as the 3rd month approaches… Until i met V, and i got really emotional when we celebrated the 3 monthsary… It was a breakthrough for me and i thought he is the One!

Then again, we did not survive 1 year. And i was the one who broke it off. He respected me and did not pick up a fight.. So we just ended things with mutual understanding…

And then, i met alex, at the other end of the world.

We actually celebrated or made it a point to keep count of the months we were together, because we never know how long we will last then, and every month was a mark of success for us, and a time to congratulate each other for making it..

Imagine my disbelief and immense gratefulness, when Alex and i celebrated our first year of togetherness… And came the second… And later the third 😉

Although the time we spent apart was way more than the time we were together physically, just somehow someway, we are still going strong..

I have people throwing doubts, telling me its easier to give up;

I have a close friend telling me that she doesn’t think alex and i will have a future together;

I have to constantly stand up for what we have and convince others to have faith in us;

I have to pray everyday for the Lord to watch over us…

Well, 2 days ago, marked us being together in a committed relationship for 3 years 5 months

We missed a lot of significant events to spend together… But we both believe that if we persevere on, that day will come 😉

Here, i would like to shamelessly declare that…
‘ i love you Alex Liao..  and i want to continue loving you’



4 Comments leave one →
  1. January 25, 2012 12:13 pm


  2. January 25, 2012 2:46 pm

    awwwww =)

  3. January 31, 2012 2:03 pm

    It’s nice to know that you found your soulmate. 🙂 As i read through ur post, it reminds me about my current relationship. Although LDR is hard to maintain yet i believe trust and love will eventually overcome it. Congrats to you! 🙂

    • February 1, 2012 7:26 pm

      somehow its comforting knowing that someone else out there is in a similar situation and knows how it feels like 🙂 I wish you the best too~

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